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If we want to succeed in our life which will play a major role  - fate, God, effort or luck? Is it destiny or hard work that help us to Success ? ( Hard working men work in factory and a girl cross her finger image -Healthythink ) So when you say fate, obviously it’s something that you cannot do anything about. When you say luck , again obviously it’s something that you cannot do anything about. When you say God , again it’s something that you cannot do anything about. So only thing that’s in your hands is effort. So put your 100% into your effort , So don’t leave proportions of your energy and your capability to luck¸ God, fate, all these things; that’s not your business. If there is such a thing, it will act. Your business is only effort ? Just do that. Effort has to be incisive, in the sense, it should be focused, calibrated. Simply if you make effort, it’s foolish effort,  Just labor is not going to get you somewhere, right kind of action, the right timing, right place, all this

Why do Couples Fall Out of Love After Some Time?


Why do Couples Fall Out of Love After Some Time?

Why Couple Fall Out of Love After Some Time
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Question arises many time Why do Couples Fall Out of Love After Some Time?

When people say that they are in love, they think they are in unconditional love. But still in most of the cases, it’s not working. It doesn’t lead to happiness. So ,when is unconditional love truly possible?
when you say love, your experience of love means, you feel certain sweetness of emotion within yourself. Either by looking at this person or this person or this person, we don’t know who stimulates this in you? It doesn’t matter who helped you. But essentially it happened within you, isn’t it?
Did it happen only within you or was it in the air?  It only happened within you. Maybe what was happening within you was so exuberant, you saw it everywhere. You are in love, you thought the flowers bloomed for you, the birds are singing for you, the clouds are moving for you.

feeling of love

All right.
I don’t want to destroy all the romance, But essentially it’s happening within you. It’s wonderful that you are experiencing such sweetness of emotion, stimulated by somebody. You are using the other person as a key to open up an experience within you essentially.
I am asking you, why are you using a key when there is no lock, when there is no door, when there is no any kind of barrier? 
It is just that you are a push-start machine. You know what’s a push-start machine? If you have owned an Ambassador, twenty-five years ago, always you parked it on a gradient like this . Because morning, two people have to push it.
somebody will come and push it. Now all the cars are self-start, many of them remote start.
What does it mean? Technological upgradation!
I am asking, would you like to upgrade your technology that you are on self-start? If you wake up in the morning, you are overflowing with joy and love and exuberance, by yourself. You don’t need anybody to stimulate you. Would you like to be a self-start machine?

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Who ever is right now doing the love in the air. It’s fine with them, you don’t have to tell them anything. You say, “All right, it’s okay.” it’s very important you are a self-start machine. Otherwise, after some time, you try to extract happiness from the other person. That is when these love affairs become tedious and horrible, because you are trying to extract happiness from the other person.
No. Life should be like this. When it comes to joy, when it comes to love, when it comes to exuberance of life, you must be the source of this. Isn’t it? You must be the source of this. Well, other things are shared in life. There are two ways to enter into a relationship. One way is because you want to extract something from somebody. Another way is because you want to share something with somebody. These are two ways. If you are out to share, your life will be good. If you are out to extract, when they close the tap, it’s going to get terrible and nasty.
(Question started Why do Couples Fall Out of Love After Some Time )

You have seen people who thought they are absolute lovers, how terrible it becomes for many of them. Not because there’s anything wrong with them. Simply because you started off on the wrong footing, thinking this person is the source of my joy. No, no, no. Joy or misery, the source is within you.
Joyful human being

Whether it’s joy
 or misery, the source is within you . It’s for you 
to decide. If you are a joyful human being, they will also want to be with you.
So, 'I love you' for a whole lot of people is like that you know, open sesame you want to get something; maybe your needs are physical, psychological, emotional, financial, social or we don’t know what else. You have needs to fulfill, so, you use this rules and it works. Half the time it works, okay. I am saying it’s important… it is important you know the joy of being loving because sweetness of emotion is needed for you, if you want to take really big steps in your life. If you do not have sweetness of love in your heart, believe me, if you try to take big steps in the world .



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