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If we want to succeed in our life which will play a major role  - fate, God, effort or luck? Is it destiny or hard work that help us to Success ? ( Hard working men work in factory and a girl cross her finger image -Healthythink ) So when you say fate, obviously it’s something that you cannot do anything about. When you say luck , again obviously it’s something that you cannot do anything about. When you say God , again it’s something that you cannot do anything about. So only thing that’s in your hands is effort. So put your 100% into your effort , So don’t leave proportions of your energy and your capability to luck¸ God, fate, all these things; that’s not your business. If there is such a thing, it will act. Your business is only effort ? Just do that. Effort has to be incisive, in the sense, it should be focused, calibrated. Simply if you make effort, it’s foolish effort,  Just labor is not going to get you somewhere, right kind of action, the right timing, right place, all this

Overcome With Fight In A Relationship

How to deal with fight in a relationship 



Punishing somebody else is not going to transform your life not going to make your life beautiful in any way.  Some sick satisfaction you'll have for two days after that you'll feel guilty about that also yes initially when this emotion is hot it gives you satisfaction after sometimes.

Overcome With Fight In A Relationship
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So probably you misunderstood the understanding. You believed that these understandings are absolute they are not nowhere in the history of humanity or today or in any time in future. Will human relationships be absolute though every person, who gets little romantic believes that this is going to be an absolute relationship. There is no such thing about it a relationship is a variable always you have to conduct it on a daily basis. One day if you don't conduct it properly it may go somewhere.  Look at it as it is you have to conduct it right so no i am doing my best obviously, somebody feels your best is not good enough for them.  First of all you need to understand relationships will never ever be absolute there will be variables that you it's juggling that you have to do. If you're juggling with fireballs one sometimes it'll spill out takes a lot of skill and attention.  You married many of you doesn't it take a lot of skill and attention if you don't pay any attention you don't know what the hell is happening, it takes a lot of attention



You need to understand this a relationship is a variable reality it is not an absolute reality. If you want to have an absolute relationship you must hold relationships with the dead. That's the reason why a lot of people choose god because it's an absolute you can handle it whichever way you want, if you didn't think of him for 10 days and on the 11th day if you think of him he's still there. You do that to your husband or wife or somebody then something else will happen. You went away, got busy, forgot about god for three years again you can think still there. So if you want to have an absolute relationship you must you should not choose human beings. Human relationships are variables needs lot of attention so that's why some people decide in their life they don't have the time and the energy to manage such things so they take another path where there is no such obligation. They close their eyes they're by themselves they don't care who's around them what's around them. So you can't do that i think, it's best in trying to punish somebody you will only end up punishing yourself. They're doing what they want to do, it's best that you see what is it that you really want with your life. You don't have to react to them and do something stupid like them you just have to sit down and look at this when your illusions are broken you're disillusioned right now it's a very good thing. If your illusions are broken that means life is bringing you closer to reality.

dealing with realationship fights
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So this is an opportunity for you to sit down and see what is the nature of my life, why is it see this piece of life is a complete piece of life.  So is it half a life are you a half a life or a full life. Full life why is it that it feels so incomplete that it needs another person to fill this life. why is it ? It's time to look at it . If this is a full life this is complete by itself but right now you made it in such a way that this cannot exist with that one and that one without that one and that one and that one so somewhere it's an incomplete life or at least it does not realize the fullness of its nature.



This is a complete piece of life packed with creator and creation together very great combination if you this is a time when life knocks at your door,  this it's time you look deeper rather than reacting and trying to fix somebody else, punishing somebody else is not going to transform your life not going to make your life beautiful in any way. Some sick satisfaction you'll have for two days after that you'll feel guilty about that also,  initially when this emotion is hot it gives you satisfaction after some time when you look back you'll feel ashamed of yourself. So don't go that way this is an opportunity somebody is opening up a spiritual dimension for you really somebody is making you realize how fragile all these things are. They can cheat you, they can run away, they can divorce you or they can fall dead.  If they fall dead you wouldn't think that he cheated me would you think no, but whichever way you denied. The important thing is you denied something how he did it is not the problem he denied you something either by death or divorce or cheating or whatever you call it but essentially you got denied. You can be denied only because you are in a certain illusory state of believing that this is half a life and it needs another half from somewhere no this is a complete life if your blossom is a complete life. You will see relationships will be of a completely different nature it will be more of coming together and sharing not of extracting, it has to transform. If it has to transform you have to transform this is a great opportunity somebody has given you stop using this word somebody cheated me just say somebody is pushing you towards ultimate reality from an illusory state.

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